Saturday, January 16, 2021

7 LIFESAVING TIPS FOR COLLEGE STUDENTS (or just about anyone)


Hi, everyone! It's mid-January, which means two things: the first month of the year is halfway over already (exCUSE ME WHAT), and a lot of students are preparing to or have already started a new semester. My first day back is the 19th, and I'm already trying to re-organize my life and reset myself for success in the next five months. (the last sentence actually reads: help)


Last semester I found some tricks and things to help me get through my classes with minimal stress and disorganization. (be assured, there was still a lot of it.) So, I thought I'd share some of them with you guys! (because I LOVE posts like these. and I KNOW some of y'all do, too. xD)


Though I used these tricks primarily for school, you could certainly adjust most of them for other areas of your life! Writing, chores, pretty much anything that could use a little more organization. That being said, onto the list! (this post is kind of long be warned)

Get a planner (and some colored pens!) JUST FOR SCHOOL. 


This was a l i f e s a v e r for me last semester. Unless you have organizational skills to rival the best of them, you're not going to want to depend on your bullet journal, or your calendar, or even your regular daily planner. I've never really been a planner person (though I guess bullet journaling could be considered a type of planner), but having one just for college helped SO much. Here's how: 


• I used colored pens to color-code each class. Green = macroeconomics (because money), purple = psychology (because alliteration), and so on. 

• I wrote the tasks I wanted to complete for each class into the day-by-day sections using the respective colors. (more on those lists in a bit)

• I wrote due dates onto the monthly calendar spread (again, using the respective colors for each class). That way I could see when things were due the entire month with just a glance.


Of course, y'all know I depend on my bullet journal for accomplishing just about everything. Adding on a list of homework things to my daily spread would get quite cluttered. By keeping ALL my goals and assignments in my school planner, I had a little more freedom. I would just add a general "homework" goal to my bullet journal and check it off whenever I completed all the tasks in my planner. 


Complete your daily goals no matter what.


Even if it means staying up later than you planned- you'll be glad later that you took the extra time! Making the effort to stay super on top of things is 100000000 times better than letting little things add up to one big ball of "oh my goodness I'm behind on so much" later. So, when you make your list, finish it!


NOW. That being said. You know your limits. Losing a little sleep to finish something up is one thing, but if you're dead-tired and literally falling asleep into your notebook? GO TO BED. College takes a lot out of you, including lots of energy and sleep (I know I make it sound so inviting), but know when enough is enough. You likely have other responsibilities, too- a job, family, whatever. So, don't push yourself over the edge! (friendly reminder that running on dangerous amounts of sleep and caffeine and never giving yourself time to rest is extremely unhealthy and shouldn't be made light of)


Adjust your work schedule however you need to.


And without guilt! If your job allows you to change your hours for school, take advantage of it. Your boss should understand that going to school and working at the same time is HARD, and you NEED to adjust as necessary. Within reason, of course. Working two hours a week probablyyy won't be well-accepted, and if you're like me that's not an option anyway. But in general, whatever will get you through the semester, do it. Last semester I had to cut one of my regular days down to three hours to go to a class at 11 AM. Since my next semester's schedule is different from the last one, I considered extending that day's hours again. I felt like since I didn't strictly need to be off work so early in the day, I owed it to my job to work those extra hours. 


But I decided to keep them the way they were, and I'm already glad I did. Working and going to school was really hard on me last semester. While I have a slightly less demanding class schedule this time, I have no idea what the homework will be like, or if the classes will run the full time they're supposed to (which is after 9 PM -_-). So, having a little extra time off work to account for that is going to be very valuable to me. Remember, just because you can handle something doesn't always mean you should try. Only you know your limits, and if you need a little more time, that's okay. Don't push yourself to the very edge of your mental and physical wellbeing. We all need time to breathe. 



If you can, set aside a specific day or time for completing big assignments. 


I had an online class last semester, which basically just involved reading through the textbook and taking tests. But those chapters were LONG and took at least a couple of hours to read, take notes on, and answer the questions. I wanted to get it over with as early in the week as I could, so I picked a day when I had the whole afternoon and evening free to do it all in one go. Since I knew that class took time, it was nice to have pretty much a whole day to commit to it. 

That being said... 



Work on assignments a little at a time.


Yeah, I know- I literally just encouraged you to do big projects at once. But here's the thing- I figured out that the way I was doing it just wasn't working for me. I would sit down about halfway through the day with visions of completing my online class obligations, then having the rest of the day to catch up on some smaller things (and maybe do something actually fun at some point). Here's what happened: I spent two or three hours just trying to finish the online class. (it was macroeconomics, extremely difficult to comprehend, and b o r i n g. oh, and I didn't have lectures to listen to, so my entire understanding of the class was dependent on what I got out of the material.) I got burnt out, frustrated to the point of tears, and often didn't do anything else for the rest of day. (sometimes I took a nap. those were nice.) Eventually, I started spreading out what I had to do for that class throughout the week. And although I definitely enjoyed getting it all done on Tuesdays and forgetting about it for a week... doing it a little at a time worked SO much better for me.


So, I advise that you just test the waters and figure out what works best for you. If you're one of those people who can power through and knock things off your to-do list in a few hours, go for it! But if it's healthier for you to sprinkle those assignments in smaller increments throughout the week, do that. Because there's nothing worse than having a whole big intimidating (and did I mentin b o r i n g) workload in front of you when you're already ready to give up for the day.


Make a to-do list every day according to what you know you can accomplish.


This is kind of an add-on to the last one- basically just an explanation of how I spread my work out. Once I fell into a groove with my planner and daily lists, I would write a very specific to-do list for every day. Assignments due first have higher priority. Days that I knew I would be busier have a less demanding list. (don't overcommit yourself!! 90% of the time, you'll just do less than you wanted to do and end up feeling awful. if you make realistic goals, you'll be much more likely to finish them, and you'll feel accomplished!)


Here's what made this effective for me: being specific. When you have a 50-page chapter of a gigantic psychology book to read every week, adding "read some psychology" to your to-do list just doesn't cut it. So, I calculated how many pages a day I would need to read to finish on time. (sometimes I would even plan to finish a day early so I'd have some wiggle room.) I did that with most of my classes. It might sound like more trouble than it's worth, but trust me. Making a specific list and sticking to it helped me a TON. (Sometimes I wrote the lists out day-by-day, sometimes I looked ahead and made the daily to-do lists for the whole week.)



Pick a day to be completely free of any schoolwork.


This is HUGE. The work just doesn't stop in college, and even if you make the most detailed, productive lists, do your assignments a little at a time, and get eight hours of sleep every night, you're probably going to get tired. So, if you possibly can, designate one day of the week to be intentionally schoolwork-free. For me, that's Sunday. I definitely didn't stick to this all semester long, because sometimes you have things that are due and you forgot about and your "day off" turns out to be the day that you PANIC AND DO EVERYTHING. (right? not just me?) But when I was keeping up with my work and could afford to take a day off... goodness, was it beneficial. So, do your best to plan ahead according to your due dates. Work ahead a bit the day before so you don't have anything to worry about on your "off" day. Trust me, it does wonders.



Okay. Well. I have rambled on quite long enough, so while I could probably come up with a few more things to share with you, I should stop and let you go on with your life. xD I hope these tips are helpful to you, if any of you give them a shot! Just remember- they may not work for you at all, and that's okay. Everyone has their own methods for doing things. Whatever gets you through the semester, honestly, just do it. xD But you should definitely feel around and figure out what works best for you! I for sure had to do my share of experimentation before settling on a routine that worked. Now, hopefully, I can apply those tricks from day one of this new semester and save myself a whole lot of stress. Hehe. (Also I just picked up my books this week and can I just say that college textbooks are OUTLANDISH?? like, besides the ridiculous prices, the sizes of those suckers. just... the only book that should be that big is an epic fantasy, thank you very much.)


ANYWAY. That's more than enough rambling for today. I hope you all have a lovely Saturday, and if you're about to start a new semester- good luck! ♥


So, who else is gearing up to start a new semester? Do you have any classes you're excited about? AND whether you're in school or not, did any of these tips sound like something you'd want to try? Also, share one of YOUR favorite productivity tips! (heaven knows I need all the help I can get xD)


Saturday, January 9, 2021

A FEW OF MY 2021 GOALS!


HAPPY NEW YEAR! *throws confetti*

Okay, yes, I know- it's a bit past New Year's Day at this point. But new years are just so exciting! And one of my favorite parts of new years are making new goals and trying to improve on old ones. Which is what this post is all about- my 2021 goals!

These are definitely not all the goals I've made for this year. But I wanted to share a few of them ones as a way to motivate me and keep track of the goals I've made. Writing things down always helps me much more likely to complete them- usually in a bullet journal I've spent hours on because we don't want to waste all that effort-, so why not slap 'em onto the blog, too? xD

Onward to the list! (in no particular order)

Finish the first draft of Twice Upon. 

You probably already know this because of all the times I've screamed about it, but Twice Upon was my 2020 NaNo novel, which I currently have 50k written of. I want to finish writing the first draft this year (which, if it turns out like the first book, will be somewhere around 96k, I believe), probably in April for Camp NaNo? But I'm hoping to make some progress on it before that, too, so that I don't have as big a goal to reach for Camp. 


Finish the second draft of Roots to Claim.

I started working my way back through this book in 2020, and it was SO much fun. (and pain. also lots of pain. this story hurts my heart) I LOVE this story and the characters (Quinard!!!!) and I just... I can't wait to see the second draft finished because I'm EXCITED to move forward with it. 

Read 30 books. 

I set my Goodreads goal low this year. xD My 2020 goal was 45 books, and I barely made it past 30. So, I decided not to push myself too hard and set my goal even below what I read last year to (hopefully) ensure that I reach it. Because goals are everything and if you don't reach them you're a failure. I am very much joking  (Also, I said I set my goal low this year- but if your normal goal is even lower than mine, that's okay!! I just set mine at what I knew I could hit going by last year. Everyone's different!)


Post consistently on YouTube and Instagram. 

This one's gonna be kind of tough. And I'm not saying I expect to maintain a consistent schedule the whole year. But I'd like to have a more structured idea of when and what I want to post, rather than just posting whatever because it's been a while since I did. Even if it means taking more breaks when life gets busy, my main goal here is to be more consistent when I am posting. 

Keep writing and submitting flash fiction.

I've had SO MUCH FUN over the past year and a half or so, getting back into flash fic writing. I've mentioned before that I used to write short stories all the time, but my focus has only been on novels for quiiite a while now. And of course, being published is awesome and I love feeling like I'm furthering my author career even before I have a book published. But besides that, writing flash fiction furthers you as a writer. After all, they say the best writing advice is to just write, right? (look at me, rhyming.) And flash fiction is a great way to improve on your craft without the pressure of writing a whole book. 

So, all that to say, I definitely want 2021 to be a year of MUCH flash fiction and hopefully much submitting as well!

Go to Realm Makers. 

!!!!! IT. IS. HAPPENING. 

I am SO THRILLED to finally be headed to Realm Makers this year!! SO. SO. EXCITED. Just praying that everything works out with COVID and everything! 

Do some drawing.

I'm not setting my expectations too high with this one, because I know I'll have very limited time and drawing is the lowest on my list of priorities. But I used to do it all the time and I do love it, so I hope to get back into it sometime this year! (Also maybe start an IG for my art?)

Be a prayer warrior. 

Y'all... we need prayer. Everyone, all around us, needs prayer. People in our lives, people in our government, people we watch on TV... there's just so much brokenness in our world. And of course we'll never see perfect harmony in this life, but oh, the changes we could be seeing if we only committed more to prayer. Prayer changes lives. Through prayer, God makes the impossible possible, and it's a gift that I think every one of us takes for granted. 

I already know I'll fail in this area many, many times this year. But I'm putting it here as a reminder to myself that prayer is so, so important, and without it I can't fairly expect anything in my life or the lives of those around me to change. 

Honestly, I could keep going for a while. (You all know those overambitious January vibes.) But to keep this list from growing longer (and to increase the chances that I come back next year with a good report xD), I'll leave it at that. 

I'm super excited to work on all these goals. I don't know what's going to happen this year or how busy I'll end up being or... well, anything, really, but I do know that I'm ready to put my all into doing the things that I want to do. Time is precious- too precious to waste complaining about all the things you want to do INSTEAD OF ACTING ON THEM. (Rest is also precious. So, hopefully I can find a balance between the two. ;))

I hope you all are having the BEST start to your year so far! And if you're not- that's okay. There's still pleeeeenty of 2021 left to change that! I'm praying for you all! Have a lovely Saturday! ♥

What are some of your goals for 2021? Is there one in particular you're really hoping to accomplish? Let's talk all things new year and hopes and dreams, friends!


Saturday, January 2, 2021

EVEN DARKNESS MUST PASS // 2020 WRAPUP!


IT'S 2021.

I'm pretty sure everyone has been waiting for this since March.

It's so hard to believe that we're here, past 2020 and into 2021. It has been QUITE. THE. YEAR, but nobody needs me to elaborate, right? We all know what's up. And I think it's an understatement to say that it's a bit of a relief to see 2020 go out the door. 

But the year wasn't all bad, and I for one am thankful to say that my 2020 was actually pretty good. Of course, I wasn't untouched by all the craziness (birthdays, Easter, Thanksgiving, were more different than they ever have been), but overall I can look back and smile.

So, that's what we're doing today- looking back. Here's my recap of 2020!

I didn't reach my Goodreads goal. 

Just thought I'd get that out of the way right off. xD My goal was 45, and I only made it to 33. BUT IT'S OKAY. I still had a great reading year!

I won't try to list ALL the books I read, but here are some highlights!

Out of Time trilogy by Nadine Brandes // I reread this series this year, and guys, these books were just as amazing the second time. They hit me in every way they did when I first read them, aaand... yeah. I'm already planning another reread. ;P

Rising Shadows trilogy by Ashley Townsend // Defying Shadows made me SOB. Like, not even joking. It's very rare that a book makes me actually cry, but this one... this one did. #thefeels 

Dust by Kara Swanson // This was SUCH a magical read, and I definitely want to reread it in 2021! Shadow also releases this year and I CAN'T WAIT. Dust was just SO GOOD. 

Lord of the Rings // I read The Hobbit and The Fellowship of the Ring this year, and I've so enjoyed taking a trip through Middle Earth again. Even though they kind of slowed my reading down, I think a comfort read was exactly what I needed at the end of this crazy year. 

This year in the writing realm, I...

-Finished the first draft of Once Upon! I started this book for NaNoWriMo 2019, and finished it up in April for Camp NaNo. So happy to see it (partway) finished!

-Made progress on the second draft of Roots to Claim! I was really hoping to finish this draft in 2020, but it just didn't happen. This is definitely a big goal of mine in 2021!

-Won NaNoWriMo and wrote 50k of Twice Upon! AKA, book 2 in my Trentley and Jynnia series. (Currently unnamed so we just keep calling it the Trentley and Jynnia series. xD) 

-Had stories published in three anthologies! I'm still just... so blown away by this. Not only was 2020 the first year I saw my name printed in a physical book, but I'm so blessed to have had it happen three times over the course of six months. SO surreal. 

February: ENDGAME.

I STILL CAN'T GET OVER THIS AHHHHH

YES. My family completed our Marvel journey with Endgame back in February, and, well... it broke me. I wrote a whole post about it here, so I won't ramble about it now, but suffice to say that I was a mess for days afterward and I JUST REALLY WANT TO WATCH IT AGAIN. 

March: Turned 22, was excited about having a Taylor Swift Red-themed birthday party (you know, feeling 22 and all that)... then cancelled it because COVID. -_-I planned on postponing it to fall or something but LOL COVID STILL HERE

May: Started a YouTube channel! And then... promptly neglected it. xD I'm hoping to provide some new content in this next year, though! I've just been having some camera troubles, but I'm working through them. Painstakingly. xD (I might have a couple videos already filmed that just need edited...)

July: Met a Power Ranger, which was by far one of the coolest things I did this year. 

August: Started college. It's been wild these past few months, and I've had my fair share of Stressed College Student moments. But I've (mostly) enjoyed the experience, and I'm proud of myself for surviving it through the first semester. (it's worth mentioning that I guessed my way through 90% of my history class and still somehow came out with an A so there's that xD) 

I also started watching Avatar: The Last Airbender! I'd been wanting to watch this for a WHILE and I finally got into it this year. (and yes, Nicole, you are 100% responsible.) I'm still only a few episodes into season 1, but it's so much fun and I can't wait to get further into it!

October: Changed my major! I started out majoring in business management. Basically, I didn't have a clear vision of what college was going to do for me, so I figured a business degree would be a useful thing to have for a variety of careers. Well, partway through the semester I started having second thoughts, and when I looked ahead at all the classes I'd need to take to finish out a business degree... that pretty much sealed the deal. SO. MUCH. MATH. And a bunch of other gross-sounding classes that I don't even want to think about. xD SO, I changed paths and am now officially an English major! 

I also did a genderbent Winter Soldier for Halloween and honestly that was one of the highlights of my year. xD I have to wear a mask at work now, so I was determined to make it look cool and I THINK I SUCCEEDED. (I told my brother to come in my room to see what I was dressed up as, and when he came in I was hiding in the corner with the lights out and the Winter Soldier theme playing. xD Had to recreate a scene from the movie, y'know.) 


November: I got COVID! *sarcastic cheers* Yep, crossed a major thing off on 2020 bingo, right there. xD My mom got it first, then my brother, then me and my dad. I already lamented about this in my NaNo wrapup post, but guys. Trying to write a book without being able to taste chocolate OR coffee = A NOT FUN TIME. (My taste and smell is back now, though. So I've been sniffing every candle I get my hands on and appreciating it more than I ever did before. xD)

Some fun blogging stats from 2020:

-Apparently my most popular post was the Awesome Blogger Award

-I reached 40 followers! (not gonna lie, I'm glad this happened before the end of the year because the odd number was bothering me xD)

-I hit 18k pageviews and 1.4k comments

So, here we are, in the dawn of 2021. I can't believe it's already January again! I'm so excited for the fresh start of a new year. New years are my favorite and I can't wait to work on the goals that I've been making! 

Like I already mentioned, I think we're all a little relieved to see 2020 end. Of course, the year didn't cause all the bad things that happened. Everything didn't just dissolve when the clock hit midnight on New Year's Eve. But seeing 2020 end is still meaningful, because seeing a new year come in is a symbol of what we've all just come through. I don't think 2020 has been easy for anybody, and welcoming in 2021 is like a small triumph that says WE MADE IT. Maybe the troubles aren't over, but we've proved to ourselves that we can withstand more than we probably ever thought we would. 

"But in the end, it's only a passing thing, this shadow. Even darkness must pass. A new day will come. And when the sun shines it will shine out the clearer."

-The Two Towers

That being said, I think it's important that we all stop and look back at 2020 with appreciation. Yes, it was a strange year. For some, maybe it was an awful year. But there was still growth, no matter what you went through. It's okay to be glad it's over, but I think we can (and should) still appreciate its existence. After all, a lot of beautiful things happened this year. I, for one, was inspired watching all the encouragement and good spirits in blogging and social media. People came together in the only way they could, providing hope and love. We acknowledged the severity of the pandemic, but we also found ways to laugh and stay lighthearted in the midst of it. People have helped each other through this wild year, and it's been amazing to watch. 

I have no idea how long we'll still be dealing with this craziness. I, for one, am more than ready to see masks, plexiglass, and social distancing reminders go away forever. But, well, there's no telling just when we can get "normal" back. Until then, let's all just do what we can to keep holding onto the positive, being kind, and trusting the future to God's hands. 

Thank you all for walking through 2020 with me! You, without a doubt, made the year 100x better. I am endlessly thankful for you all, and I can't wait to explore this new year with you! You'll never know how much your comments, your support, and your friendship means to me.

Before I go: I may go on hiatus this month. At least partially. I honestly haven't totally decided yet if I will or not, but I'd like to do some more reading and writing before school starts up again. So if I don't post at all or as regularly, that's why! I hope to get back to regular posting by February, though. 

Here's to a wonderful 2021! HAPPY NEW YEAR!

So tell me, guys- what's something GOOD that happened to you in 2020? Or one reason that you appreciate it despite its craziness? And what are you most excited about in 2021?